Ahh, the holidays! That magical time of year when loved ones travel far to spend a few precious days together. With strings of light and holiday decorations glittering on every surface, you start thinking about something else that’s uber-sparkly and oh-so-romantic: an engagement ring for your bae!
Isn’t that what happens in all those made-for-TV holiday shows? The future groom drops to one knee in front of a gloriously decorated tree and presents his b-loved with a massive sparkler? (Bonus points if bells are ringing in the New Year in the background!)
Maybe it’s time to pop the question? Or not! We get it- holiday proposals have an irresistible element of magic and romance. But is this really the best time to propose? Read on to learn why it might be better to wait until a time when the only thing sparkling and shimmering is that exquisite engagement ring!
1. Holiday Proposals are SOOO Cliché!
The biggest problem with proposing on Christmas or New Year’s Eve is that it’s unoriginal. Like we mentioned earlier, holiday proposals are so predictable that entire movies have been made about them. Doesn’t your bae deserve something more original? Propose to her at a time when she won’t be competing with her sister’s new baby or Instagram-famous younger cousin for the spotlight.
If you’re looking for a fantastic Christmas gift, get her something luxurious like the Pave X Ring. Then, when the holidays are over, drop to one knee and present her with a sumptuous solitaire like The Naomi or The Nelly.
P.S. The Pave X Ring will make an amazing stack with any engagement ring!
The Naomi with a 3 carat Elongated Cushion cut Diamond in White Gold with The 1.5mm Helen band and Pave X Ring in Rose Gold
2. Everyone Sees It Coming! (Including Her)
Proposals should be a surprise. A joyous one, but a surprise all the same. Do it during the holidays and everyone will see it coming! (Again, blame it on Hollywood!)
Wait until the tree and ornaments have been put away for another year. Then go wandering in a winter wonderland or amongst the cherry blossoms of spring and present her with The Twig or The Eve and watch her eyes light up- first with surprise and then with love!
The Eve with a 2.5 carat Pear cut Diamond in Yellow Gold
3. Can We Say ‘High-Stress Environment’?
Ever heard the saying, “You need a holiday from your holiday?” Sure, the Christmas holidays are full of love and excitement when families come together, but they’re seriously hectic! Whether you’re hosting a get together or traveling to attend one, your adrenaline will be at max levels the entire time. When you do have a quiet or intimate moment, you’re both going to be too tired to be romantic!
Imagine popping the question- only to have your sister’s kids run screaming into the room or be shocked by a smoke alarm because Mom overcooked the turkey. Not fun!
Wait until things return to normal. Then, over an intimate brunch or while strolling in a public garden in the summer sunshine, drop to one knee and present The Nelly or The Pave Alex. Not only will she love it, but you’ll both have energy to celebrate afterward!
4. Distractions Galore
Let’s be real: holidays are crammed with distractions. With so much going on, it's easy for your partner's attention to be pulled in a million different directions, leaving you feeling like you're competing for their attention with the Christmas tree, the holiday music, and Aunt Martha's fruitcake!
Is it really the best time to create a special and memorable moment for your partner? Maybe it's better to wait until things calm a bit and the holiday madness dies down. That way, you can focus on each other and, when you kneel and present a stunning sparkler like The Scarlett, create a moment that's truly special and unforgettable.
The Scarlett with a 1 carat Oval cut Diamond in White Gold
5. Great Expectations
Ah, the holidays! The time of year when expectations run high like a kid on sugar. We all want the perfect gift, the perfect dinner, and the perfect memories to last a lifetime. But proposing during the holidays? Let's pump the brakes a bit!
You see, proposing during this time can add a whole new level of pressure. It's like adding hot sauce to a dish that's already spicy! Your significant other already has expectations of a cozy holiday season with family and friends, and now you want to throw in a proposal? Talk about raising the bar!
The Lucia with a 2.5 carat Oval cut Diamond in White Gold
So before you get down on one knee with a ring in hand, think it through. While it may seem like a romantic idea, proposing during the holidays can add unnecessary pressure and potentially ruin the holiday experience.
Keep it simple, keep it sweet, and make it special in its own right. Why not give her this stunning Round Twig Pendant as a prelude to The Textured Twig engagement ring later on? Talk about an amazing buildup!
The Round Twig Pendant and The Small Twig Pave Pendant in Rose Gold
6. Money, Money, Money....
The holidays are THE time of year when money flows as much as water- if not more! You want to get her the most breathtaking ring imaginable- but how will you manage that while spending tons of moolah on presents, hosting, travel, and other demands that the holidays make on your wallet?
If you want to give her a dazzling gift she’ll never want to take off, surprise her with jewelry like the Distance Mandala Ring in White Gold combined with The Twig
Alternative Proposal Ideas That’ll Blow Her Away!
Getting engaged is one of the most memorable moments in a person's life. A holiday such as Christmas or New Years is a celebration for EVERYONE. By turning that day into a proposal day, you take some of the joy and focus away from the holiday itself.
Instead of combining your engagement day with another holiday, enjoy it separately with your love. Here are some ideas:
• Go on a spring picnic. Candles, wine, and chocolate-covered strawberries are the perfect prelude to a proposal!
• Recreate your first date. What could be more romantic than popping the question at the cozy bistro where you first met?
• Take a sunrise or sunset hike. Beginning or ending a glorious day with a proposal is the ULTIMATE.
• If you're lucky enough to be near a beach, do a romantic beach proposal. The pristine sand and gently roaring surf will add beauty and context into the proposal.
Conclusion
Holidays are not the perfect backdrop for what should be a private, personal, intimate moment between you and your bae. Ideal proposals stand alone, without needing to coincide with the glitz and glamor of Christmas or New Year’s.
The day you propose should belong to the two of you. So buy the ring now, save the holidays for family, and choose a special and meaningful day that you and your bae can truly make your own.
